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Women who have an edge – who know what they want, and go for it. More often than not, these types of women have been older than me. When I was younger (18-21), I thought these types of women were out of my league. But in the last few years, I’ve come to see that these women are very attainable, even when you’re a young guy. But it wasn’t until I shifted my mindset – and altered some of my behaviors – that I started to attract more of these women than ever before… If you’ve ever fantasized about attracting and dating sexy older women, you’re in the right place.
It was a useful reminder that a cult of virginity is specific neither to Egypt, my birthplace, nor to Islam, my religion.
Remembering my struggles with abstinence and being alone with that, I determined to talk honestly about the sexual frustration of my 20s, how I overcame the initial guilt of disobedience, and how I made my way through that guilt to a positive attitude toward sex.
These initiatives prove that sex-positive attitudes are not the province only of so-called white feminism.
As the writer Mitali Saran put it, in an anthology of Indian women’s writing: “I am not ashamed of being a sexual being.”My revolution has been to develop from a 29-year-old virgin to the 49-year-old woman who now declares, on any platform I get: It is I who own my body.
It has not been easy for my parents to hear their daughter talk so frankly about sex, but it has opened up a world of other women’s experiences.
In many non-Western countries, speaking about such things is scorned as “white” or “Western” behavior.
Many of the women who share them with me, I realize, enjoy some privilege, be it education or an independent income.
It is striking that such privilege does not always translate into sexual freedom, nor protect women if they transgress cultural norms.
They write to vent about how to “get rid of this burden of virginity,” or to ask about hymen reconstruction surgery if they’re planning to marry someone who doesn’t know their sexual history, or just to share their thoughts about sex.
Countless articles have been written on the sexual frustration of men in the Middle East — from the jihadi supposedly drawn to armed militancy by the promise of virgins in the afterlife to ordinary Arab men unable to afford marriage.
We barely acknowledge the sexual straitjacket we force upon women.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating